Hey, so I met a girl at a club on Sunday's (it's popular on Sunday nights) near the beach. After the club closed at 2 we went swimming, and she was topless and it was really relaxed and cool. I didn't drink much, so I drove her to a pancake restaurant after and got food with her. It was really nice and she kept staring at me with glazed eyes and pulling me in to kiss her and cuddling up to me and stuff. I had work early the next morning and she lived on the other side of town, so I couldn't go to her place and she couldn't come to mine either because of work. I got her number and facebook and I texted her this: The next day: Me: Thanks for last night! I had a great time! šŸ˜ Her a few hours after: Aha yeah it was fun Me 3 days later: Hey I might be going to town on Saturday or on Sunday , you reckon you might go? Her: Hey, sorry I'm not going out this weekend got work Me: Ahh damn that sucks, maybe we can meet up another time? She didn't respond Me 5 days later: Oh no you've been kidnapped!? 😱 Don't worry I'll save you!! I hope they've been feeding you! I'll bring chocolate... Or do you prefer ice-cream? Her an hour later: Ahha Nah Im all good Not sure if it's a shit test or if she genuinely doesnt wanna text. What's your advice? I was thinking about saying something along the lines of "oh so you'd prefer that weird pancake, tomato and maple syrup combo from the ?" because she had that and we had a joke that she likes weird foods. Any advice on what I should do?

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That is definitely true as well. I just didn't want to throw too much stuff on him at once.

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Thanks guys! Big rip for me, have you ever turned something like this around?
Any specific points I should improve, or just everything in general? I'm new to the game if it wasn't obvious haha

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avilench . Avatar

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I honestly think it is pretty much done at this point . is there a tine chance? Yes, probably. But the odds so against you . I would just internalize the lesson here and focus on the next one.
One thing you can do, is use this as an opportunity to improve your text game . Just assume that this is 100% done and you have nothing to loose. I will give you the first step, send her the attached pic along with "Let's turn good into great "

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