First image is last one, so slide to the left. The first image youll see is the last one Edit: see comment for update For context: As you can see she had agreed to come to my place if I ubered her to me & back, but she asked to FT. During the call she told me she handn't decided if she wanted to come & had told me she would just to get me to FT. The FT was an hour long, and she was super testy all the way through. My bad having such a long call but I was genuinely enjoying dealing with her tests even though I didn't do a very good job of it tbh. After the call she told me she would think about coming, I gave her 15m and she didn't text me so I send her the message saying we should meet some other time. I am pretty sure this is done, but would still love your suggestions as to what I could have done better text game wise & if there is anything that can be done now. PS: its a really long convo

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I just think it's a combination of several things, like the ones I mentioned, that all added up.

Now that I went back, just in the first few screenshots you used 4 smiley/winky faces. (she didn't use any) so avoid that. Really only time to add an emoji is to lighten the message , specifically adding the smirk emoji ( šŸ˜) but definitely not smiley faces

She was being VERY bratty. I think you continuously let that go on instead of calling her out/or passing her shit tests, you just kept being nice/accommodating so she kept taking advantage of that. Which honestly, the first thing that comes to mind is this girl must be 18 years old but regardless she's also extremely immature sounding. So your game wouldn't come off as ineffective if this chick was a normal girl not playing stupid games.

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Yes I tend to over use winky faces tbh. I'll fix that. Never smiley though.

You are on point she is 18.

I know it might be too much to ask. But if you have time would you mind telling me where you would have called her out for being bratty & what you would have said? I definitely see that I fucked up the shit tests on the call, but not through text.

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