I met a girl for the first time and we hung out for about 5 hours. I couldn't pull her back to my place because of bad logistics, but I made the moves. I met her at the mall, pulled her to my car and drove her and we chilled at a lookout, massaged her hand, then held hands, I was rubbing her legs, I kept saying how soft her legs are, then I grabbed her head and kissed her lips when I dropped her off at her house. She was compliant to everything and never gave me any bad signals by pulling away at anything. My biggest mistake is I didn't invite myself up to her place. I dropped her off and left... but idk maybe I could've just said "can i come upstairs to your room and chill for a bit?". I was just nervous and I need some guidance. When I got home I texted her "That was 🔥" and she responded "That was really fun". Now, I don't know what to do next.... Do I leave her on read so she can digest the date and wait a bit until her emotions fade before I initiate contact again to set up a 2nd date? What about the point of no return?
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"Let's do it again sometime soon". As a side note, 5 hours is way tooo long to do a first date. If you had bad logistics, you could have done 2 hours and left it there
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How can i invite myself over to her place next? Because her place is so much better for logistics because im driving.
Is it weird if I suggest hanging out at her room in the morning and we go out after since she doesnt drive a car and i need to pick her up at her place anyways? she already said she cant hang in evenings so im trying to work with the schedule she gave me and i dont really want to continue being out in public with her until we have sex first.
“Can I come over Saturday morning and chill for a bit? Then we can go to xyz together after” - would this work?
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Try "Is your place an option?"