So I met this chick on first date. Made the grave mistake of getting there late by 1 hr (due to some personal work) sje was visibky angry and reluctant for a hug, our plan for attending a light show failed so we went to an Irish pub and talked a lot. She was mirroring my body language and we were standing quite close in subway train, good eye contact, she was interested in convos too. She mentioned she had gone on a date every week, and was still looking for something serious, she did mention she was type A person, and I couldnt flirt much with het and I wasnt sure if I could kiss or sexualize at end of date, so just gave her a hug, kiss on cheek and we parted ways on subway. Here's the text that followed. I tried sexualizing as a hail mary attempt. She hasnt replied back since yesterday, what should I do?

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yeah man, being congruent from text and in person is pretty big imo, the booty text probably threw her off if you were just platonic on the date.

As far the girl, it was just 1 date right? be careful being needy my dude with thinking/saying stuff like "have your girl taken away". Plenty first date girls to be had, until she is on rotation for like months then I might start to assess the situation but maybe that is just me. As far as this party, if you know hot girls will be there, I'd check it out, you can always bounce if its lame or sketchy

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Yes I agree, better move on. Its just that the cricketer guy really made the situation weirder lmao

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