Messaging girl on. I’m leaving. High investment then this, she doesn’t respond so I send a voice message day and half later since she liked my accent. Basically I said we get on well during text let’s meet up here’s my number etc. No reply. Anything I can do? I managed to find her fb and insta but dunno if I should add without coming across creepy

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Matt G Avatar

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Less is more. If you review your messages before you send them and can cut out 50% of the words and still tell the same story, do that. Then repeat. And repeat. This is my suggestion specifically for you after reading your post.

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to expand on this. its not about typing up everything on your mind, then going back and trying to abbreviate it and cut excess words out. (as I used to do. and im sure many of us has). even though thats a start

the ideas thesmvles have to be concise. instead of sending every thought that comes to mind, send the one best given the context. you can always rely on those 'other thoughts' for follow up texts, etc

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Matt G Avatar

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I agree completely. I was putting myself in his position and trying to take it one step at a time.

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Sean Michael Avatar

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That sounds like good advice, thanks

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