Messaging girl on. I’m leaving. High investment then this, she doesn’t respond so I send a voice message day and half later since she liked my accent. Basically I said we get on well during text let’s meet up here’s my number etc. No reply. Anything I can do? I managed to find her fb and insta but dunno if I should add without coming across creepy
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Fair enough. I really struggle with the one two line messages everyone seems to be able to do atm though.
Obviously hasn’t got the biggest success rate but every girl I’ve managed to get out over the years, because they feel they “know me” it’s been an easy first date and they end up coming to mine. I’ve even heard a few say nobody else writes like this and they’ve never been able to have this kind of conversation with anyone before.
But yeah I agree most seem to message a lot shorter and can’t argue with the success rate.
I’m trying to learn it but just struggle atm with the short messages to keep someone interested
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Less is more. If you review your messages before you send them and can cut out 50% of the words and still tell the same story, do that. Then repeat. And repeat. This is my suggestion specifically for you after reading your post.
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to expand on this. its not about typing up everything on your mind, then going back and trying to abbreviate it and cut excess words out. (as I used to do. and im sure many of us has). even though thats a start
the ideas thesmvles have to be concise. instead of sending every thought that comes to mind, send the one best given the context. you can always rely on those 'other thoughts' for follow up texts, etc
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That sounds like good advice, thanks
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I’ve just realised my username btw. It’s cause I signed up using fb and I got given this phone with someone still signed into fb browser