So long story short, video messaged this girl twice. Very pretty girl with only had been with one long term guy. The 3rd time she starts getting super horny and fingering herself on video. She starts saying things like “come over now!” And then 3 seconds later “no not even on the first date no!” The next day she was extremely distant like 1 text compared to blowing up my phone and the following day nothing. I’m thinking she feels ashamed of herself and thinks I’m a player or something. Do you think a sad dog picture with the words “your making him cry” would be appropriate 3-4 days later? Or something like “Hey I thought we had great chemistry, what’s your concerns?”
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Hmm I believe you didn’t respond to her initial shit test correctly “ no not even on the first date” I would of said something like “ dw, I’m wearing a chastity belt ;) “
I’m not sure if your framed it as an explicit fuck date and her anti slut defence kicked in.
You need to send screenshots to get a feel of the convo
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I don’t think that’s the case. As I said oh no we’re definitely having sex on the first day now. When she said no after the date. I joked I was gonna be slapping her ass out in public. I genuinely think she feels a moral shame from wanting to have sex with a guy she never met. As she only had one long term bf that she slept with. I Don’t really like the bratty girls. I’m a sweet girl kinda guy lol
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Yes. I run into this a lot, and will actually get ghosted from girls who get super horny before meeting. I've backed off of sexting for this reason, but now am landing dates with a higher percentage of prudes. It's tough, because I want girls to know that I'm the guy theyre fantasizing about, that I'm not at all intimidated by strong sexuality, without making them feel ashamed for wanting that nor completely giving away the mystery/allowing them to partially fulfill the fantasy before meeting.
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Ya bro that’s the anti slut defence happens to me quite a bit since I’m very Sexual with my text game