I have been on tinder again for a few months since my last break up and I am getting some good results. However, I notice that my cold approach skills are still lacking and I am finding it difficult to get back in the game so to say. This is making me miss out on opportunities and I would like to improve on this. Do you guys have some tips or ideas on how to open a girl during the day?

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Thanks for the nice step by step line you use. I'm probably also overthinking those situations in search of the best opener, but just a simple situational remark or commen denominator mixed with a joke should indeed be enough to get it started. Its probably also a numbers game for me getting over that initial anxiety, when I know there is a 1% chance she is interested I'm the most confident guy but when I don't have that 1% knowledge I overthink shit.

Thanks for your extensive feedback man! I will give this line of thought a go and see if I can make it my 2nd nature.

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Try to trick yourself into thinking that every girl is interested.

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Difficult, but necessary

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