This girls is a hard nut... We were texting for some time back and forth. Last Saturday we met and already made out!! She was tipsy but she basically initiated the whole make out etc. The next day I sent her a voice message saying: it was great seeing you, and good I didn’t drive you home (as I wanted to but then lost her in the party) as you wouldn’t have let me go again hehe. Her response to that in a voice message: I am sorry for coming across I want to seduce you but I was quite drunk lala. My response (a text): before you can seduce me I would need to get to know you better and see if the chemistry is right first, this is important to me. Her answer really strikes me now: To be honest I don’t really have to aim to do that. But all good. Happy Christmas. My interpretation of that: she doesn’t like to chase me and therefore completely withdraws the investment. Moreover she still feels bad about the night and feels like a slut or whatever. So what should I do?? I thought of: ignoring it and send her a voice messade just saying that I liked seeing at the event again and that I wish her a great Christmas. tell her, you don’t need to feel bad, we are drunk sometimes, I totally understand that and that everything is okay. My goal: meet her and eat her out asap Obviously. Please let me know your feedback. Cheers and happy Christmas

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J

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J

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Hey man! Thanks so much for your help.

  • I lost her at the party so couldnt close but obv would have gone all in then :)
  • I ll send her a voice message saying this, good idea.

I am just wondering how you would go for it now. What should be the frame now, I want to see her obv and close,
on the other hand she is leaving in 5 days, so I also have a timely problem. How would you handle this?

Thanks a lot for your help again, it means a lot to me <3

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Happy to help. The frame for me would be “hey you got 5 days left, let’s make the most of them and enjoy them”

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J

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Thanks man!! I actually sent her a voice message last night saying that line of “I was joking with you etc” and also putting some more context about wishing her as well a merry Christmas and asking if she already packed for her trip etc.

  • the response really shows that she is still very pissed.

The texts from her are:

  • all good :) I hope you als had a nice Christmas ;)
  • I am going to start packing in two days :)
  • enjoy the time here and see you soon :)

So my idea was to be like

  • someone is still very mad here. that wasn’t my intention at all.
  • she will be saying something: I am not mad lala
  • I’ll be saying something like: okay so let’s make the most of your last 5 days here and enjoy them :)
  • she will be like: hmmm I don’t know lala

I personally don’t really know how to act here now as I want her to feel good again and make her comfortable meeting me without having to discuss the texts again or me judging her for kissing me etc.

What do you think, is there any way to save this baby?

Thanks a lot again man ❤️

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