This girls is a hard nut... We were texting for some time back and forth. Last Saturday we met and already made out!! She was tipsy but she basically initiated the whole make out etc. The next day I sent her a voice message saying: it was great seeing you, and good I didn’t drive you home (as I wanted to but then lost her in the party) as you wouldn’t have let me go again hehe. Her response to that in a voice message: I am sorry for coming across I want to seduce you but I was quite drunk lala. My response (a text): before you can seduce me I would need to get to know you better and see if the chemistry is right first, this is important to me. Her answer really strikes me now: To be honest I don’t really have to aim to do that. But all good. Happy Christmas. My interpretation of that: she doesn’t like to chase me and therefore completely withdraws the investment. Moreover she still feels bad about the night and feels like a slut or whatever. So what should I do?? I thought of: ignoring it and send her a voice messade just saying that I liked seeing at the event again and that I wish her a great Christmas. tell her, you don’t need to feel bad, we are drunk sometimes, I totally understand that and that everything is okay. My goal: meet her and eat her out asap Obviously. Please let me know your feedback. Cheers and happy Christmas
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Lol. I’m confused about several things. If she was digging you that night, why not just try to bang Her? Sounds like she was Dtf
Secondly, why put on the whole pretense of “I need to get to know you better blah blah”. It just sounds awkward. Her response to that wasn’t that surprising to me tbh
Third, eat her out? Why not have your goal be to bang her lol
You kind of dug yourself in an unecessary whole, both your ideas for a response are meh. I would personally respond with something like “I was kidding, sort of. But, i do like the confidence ;)”
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Hey man! Thanks so much for your help.
I am just wondering how you would go for it now. What should be the frame now, I want to see her obv and close,
on the other hand she is leaving in 5 days, so I also have a timely problem. How would you handle this?
Thanks a lot for your help again, it means a lot to me <3
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Happy to help. The frame for me would be “hey you got 5 days left, let’s make the most of them and enjoy them”