Following up from the thread I made a few days ago, I matched with a dime that’s exactly my type a week ago on Wednesday, she sent a couple responses and then stopped replying. Link to the thread below for context... https://forums.playingfire.com/posts/hinge-match-rejected-date-idea-proposal-how-to-respond Since then I sent a follow up 3 days after(Sunday), saying “are we gonna figure out this dilemma? Because im taking you out one way or another” no response. I haven’t sent anything since then. Usually when I’ve encountered such cases it’s been hard to get anything out of the interaction, but I’d like to try and throw the kitchen sink at this one since she’s fine as hell and I don’t think I have much to lose at this point tbh. My two options are the following. A takeaway on the app itself. Any recommendations for what kind of takeaway to send would be much appreciated. Hit her up on her Instagram, she states on her profile that she’s more active there, I just made an Instagram and it has 1 follower so it’s not got anything going apart from the same photos as my hinge profile. This one I want to be careful to not look weird or needy by chasing her on Instagram too.
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So it’s been two weeks since I’ve even looked into this match, still ghosted, but what’s weird is she hasn’t unmatched me either. It makes me think if maybe trying the Instagram route might be worth a final shot? Usually when girls have ghosted me, they unmatch shortly after. But this girl does have her Instagram in her bio saying she’s more active there.
I’ve been occupied with other matches since I last messaged her saying “if your too shy I’d understand”. That was over 2 weeks ago. Should I just go for it and see what happens?
Maybe saying something like “either you’ve been kidnapped or you ain’t much of a texter?”
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"Abducted by aliens? Hope you're getting probed" .But this is probably a done deal. Her unmatching or staying matched has nothing to do with her interest towards you. She'd have to scroll down 1000's of profiles to find you anyway
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Yeah I agree it’s most definitely already concluded. And it’s pretty likely that at this point she may even finally unmatch after this last nudge, but again nothing to lose so I’ll try. The great thing about dating apps is this one dime is probably lost, but I got another one lined up to work on, and plenty more around the corner..
I’ll send the abducted message later tonight and see what happens.