Want to try and save this match, got nothing to lose..
Following up from the thread I made a few days ago, I matched with a dime that’s exactly my type a week ago on Wednesday, she sent a couple responses and then stopped replying. Link to the thread below for context...
https://forums.playingfire.com/posts/hinge-match-rejected-date-idea-proposal-how-to-respond
Since then I sent a follow up 3 days after(Sunday), saying “are we gonna figure out this dilemma? Because im taking you out one way or another” no response. I haven’t sent anything since then. Usually when I’ve encountered such cases it’s been hard to get anything out of the interaction, but I’d like to try and throw the kitchen sink at this one since she’s fine as hell and I don’t think I have much to lose at this point tbh. My two options are the following.
- A takeaway on the app itself. Any recommendations for what kind of takeaway to send would be much appreciated.
- Hit her up on her Instagram, she states on her profile that she’s more active there, I just made an Instagram and it has 1 follower so it’s not got anything going apart from the same photos as my hinge profile. This one I want to be careful to not look weird or needy by chasing her on Instagram too.
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"If you're too shy, I'd understand" . It's extremely difficult to help when you post 4 texts between you and the girl overall man
So it’s been two weeks since I’ve even looked into this match, still ghosted, but what’s weird is she hasn’t unmatched me either. It makes me think if maybe trying the Instagram route might be worth a final shot? Usually when girls have ghosted me, they unmatch shortly after. But this girl does have her Instagram in her bio saying she’s more active there.
I’ve been occupied with other matches since I last messaged her saying “if your too shy I’d understand”. That was over 2 weeks ago. Should I just go for it and see what happens?
Maybe saying something like “either you’ve been kidnapped or you ain’t much of a texter?”
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"Abducted by aliens? Hope you're getting probed" .But this is probably a done deal. Her unmatching or staying matched has nothing to do with her interest towards you. She'd have to scroll down 1000's of profiles to find you anyway
Hey Alex, the image I attached is basically the whole conversation lol..with the exception of me sending the following three messages after.
Next day after she replied I sent
“Damn you had to shoot me down like that”
“Where in (insert city) you at?”
3 days after the last two messages
“So are we gonna solve this dilemma? Since I’m taking you out one way or another”.
I might try the too shy takeway tomorrow? Either she responds or maybe just unmatches, either way it’s a conclusion..
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Yea dont message her on ig now that she ghosted u on hinge, especially if you only have 1 follower that will be pretty weird
Use a takeaway like "im just gonna assume you got abducted by aliens" but its probably dead. Doesent hurt to try tho
Yeah I think the Instagram route might be pointless, since realistically she’s seen my messages and chose not to reply so Instagram won’t make a difference.
The takeaway I use needs to be something that might catch her attention and get a response. I gotta think it since it’s probably the last message I’ll send before accepting it’s done.
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