I can get from match to date easily but I have trouble getting from the date to my bed. I just got out of a long term relationship and still new to dating. So far from bumble I've gone out with 2 girls (Sarah and Lisa). With Sarah, we went out to a bar and date went well, I invited her back to my place and she said not on the first date. We made out at the end and set up a second. Second date went well at a bar. I invited her back and she said she wants to wait still but she wants another date. We made out again and she left. Third date is coming up but I'm taking her to the park this time cause the bar is too expensive. With Lisa, I took her to the bar. Date went well and I invited her back to my place but she said she wants to get to know me more first. We made out at the end and she left. Second date is coming up at another bar. Both times I had serious make out sessions with tongue and grabbing but they both want more dates first. How long does it take you guys?
28 Posts (+2), 62 Cmts (+8)
Good to know. Seems like I can't get the girl back on the first date but when I say "do I get a goodbye kiss?" It always leads to a make out session. Gets us in the mood but they've already said no to going back to my place so when I ask again they say next time.
So I'll try and just lead them to my place and then kiss them when we get inside. Then it'll be set. Thanks for the advice! I literally have a date tonight with a new girl so I hope I can pull this off. She's going on a trip for a week so there's gotta be a reason she agreed to a same day meet up lol
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What i do is after getting out the bar going for the kiss. Or going for the kiss in the bar.
Then walk them to my place. I'll typically ask them: "wanna hang out at my spot?" and after making out they usually say yes.
28 Posts (+2), 62 Cmts (+8)
That's the blueprint I'm looking for. Bar, kiss, then my place. I always do bar, my place?, kiss, leave with nothing.
I'll try that tonight thanks!
28 Posts (+2), 62 Cmts (+8)
Damn bro I got swerved. She didn't even give me a goodbye kiss. The whole date went well I thought. But I guess she wasn't into me. She was a little out of my league but my text game was on point. She was play touching me and tapping me and playing with her hair. But when I went outside we started walking around and I went for a kiss and she said covid. I was like wow that's cap. She's like no I don't do that on the first date. I'm like you're not tryna come over and chill some more? She's like nah I gotta get home.
I keep striking out on bar dates. Kinda sucks. Maybe I'll try day game cold approach better than online dating. Maybe my pictures look better than I do in person? Idk man but this sucks.