Some crazy shit happened the other day. I just woke up and I’m getting coffee at a counter, asocial mood, headphones in,bundled up for winter weather, back facing the rest of the store and all of a sudden this absolutely stunning girl quickly comes up to me, reaches over to grab something in front of me, looks straight in my eyes and smiles. I was startled and I say “hey how are you” she says “good how are you” pretty basic but the way she acted and her voice tone told me it was on.. she pays at the counter and I’m behind her and run out while she’s getting in her car. She’s smiling with her mouth wide open the whole time and the first thing she says is “do you come here a lot? I can’t believe I’ve never seen you before” she asks where we live she puts her # in my phone the whole interaction was phenomenal. We both leave for work and I text her when I get home. Starts off good.. quickly dissipated and I get left on read when I go for the date. I run into her today (2 days later) she apologizes for not answering and says she’s been busy. Convo is ok and at one point I suggests meeting at the bar next door that night. Too busy. Another night this week. Too busy. I tell her to Hmu when she figures it out. That interaction was meh.. they keep happening in the morning before coffee and before work and I’ve been walking on eggshells prior to this because I keep blowing amazing interactions with texting. Like 12 in a row that should be layups

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I’ve had this happen one other time.. same place months ago where a girl gave me heavy ioiS and the same exact thing happened when I came up to then as far as facial expression (doe eyes, open mouth smile, teeth showing and their mouth stays open the whole time with their head tilted back, laughing at literally everything you say and offering total compliance and the whole interaction is smooth) they know in that case that you are socially calibrated to iois and don’t even need to be opened because the interaction has already been started by them. Only two times that has ever happened and the reaction was identical
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She was also texting back in seconds up until the date feeler. We both went straight to work so I think waiting 9 hrs to text her killed the spark as well