Hey guys, would really appreciate your help with this. When I went for the soft close she turned it into a virtual happy hour. I'm not good at flirting over phone/video , so I feel like doing it virtually is going to kill my chances. Was trying to address her concerns and push for in person, but she stopped responding after the last message (before this she was very responsive). Planning to reengage in 2 days, but need to know what to say/how to bring this back.
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Thanks man, yeah it seems like a lost cause. I'll probably agree to the virtual date and just take it as an opportunity to improve my game. Any advice on trying to escalate virtually through drinking games or something like that? I've seen you sometimes FaceTime the girl in your LRs, how long do those calls last and what do you talk about?
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That's honestly not an area I have much experience in. I'm pretty adamant about avoiding virtual dates. The stuff you're referring to is quick phone calls, but usually those don't last more then 20 minutes. During that time I banter, shoot the shit, tease them, make sexual innuendos, & most importantly set up a date. I've posted a few "in-field" videos of phone calls to the mastermind group on Facebook, so check those out for examples as well.