Hey guys, would really appreciate your help with this. When I went for the soft close she turned it into a virtual happy hour. I'm not good at flirting over phone/video , so I feel like doing it virtually is going to kill my chances. Was trying to address her concerns and push for in person, but she stopped responding after the last message (before this she was very responsive). Planning to reengage in 2 days, but need to know what to say/how to bring this back.
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I would actually go for a take away because you pushed for an in-person meetup. I'd say - "If you're too uncomfortable, we can see if we have chemistry over the phone." I would say learn how to flirt over the phone. Its something I'm struggling with myself, but that's how you grow.
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Thanks bro. Any resources for learning flirting over the phone? My big problem is not being able to back up my witty and flirty texts with real time conversation. I can't come up with good banter, so I end up going too safe and it becomes like an interview with no sexual tension. Doing it over FaceTime is even worse because it just amplifies the awkwardness when things don't flow. I have this problem in person as well, but I'm usually able to get past it and close with alcohol + physical escalation.
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I'm no expert but my flirting has improved a lot after watching Craig Ferguson show. Russell Brand is amazing as well but I can't resonate with him.