I was curious about this sometimes I get likes from a hot girl (my profile is currently not so good) and when we match and I open, there is no reply. I usually open with a question and most answer with interest that is high and sometimes there are just hot girls who like me and they never text back at all. I appreciate the like and still I wonder why does she not reply. Is it possible to turn something like this into a hook-up/date? Or is it just a sign that she is low interest and a potential time waster? For example. Me: What's up XYZ? Where the hell is place ZYZ? She: no reply Me: What's up XYZ? How come you wanted to be part of the secret service are you an american spy? She: I always loved detective stories I thought being an agent would be fun and pay well π. We continue texting and dated. Me: What's up XYZ? How come you watch anime XYZ? Are you secretly asian? She: I wish haha. I was captivated by the series and I like watching animes ;) did you see it? We continue texting we exchanged numbers, yet somehow no date occured here. Is it the opener? Is this just normal that it happens on the other app I have nothing to basically go of besides pictures which maks it very difficult to ask questions. Would openers like this work, when the users in the app barely gives any descriptions about themselves and only use pictures? I bet you are trouble. How do I make sure you are not a serial killer? I bet you are a sugar mommy and you are trying to groom me. I bet you go to the gym 3x a week, is that correct or am I right? I bet you know where I can find good wine here, is that correct or am I right? I bet you know where I can find good cake here, am I right? Basically assumptions and observations that are commonplace? Is that a smart way onto how to approach a situation like this?
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This is just par for the course for things like tinder and bumble. A lot of girls are on there for validation and attention and they have no intention on meeting or dating anyone. Some are fake profiles even.
This is why itβs a good idea to run high volume when using online dating. Alex has a video on this for his online dating strategies for 2022.
Cheers!
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I feel the same way, I used two apps with not many users to just get better at online-game I did some night game also and did have some minor success with it which suprised me how fast things can escalate. In this region there is not a larger pool of people to run high volume. Having leads from numbers etc. So, quality matters a lot.
I found the two most used apps in Germany now and I will game them.