Not a shit test, an enquiry about why you're such a perfect match. The power frame is "you seem to have qualities that I look for as a discerning high-value master of the universe". You put that in words like "You look like you have 2 of my weaknesses, maybe 3"
Now you don't have much choice but to finish what you've started. Wait a good bit of time, 48hrs+, and send a proper takeaway. ”If you’re too nervous, I’d understand”
I think when I get matches like these, I get so impatient texting because I think she's going to leave me on read at any time (which has happened before while it seemed we were vibing). So I rush to get the number.
A common problem... but step back and see how that belief leads to bad texting and the whiff of desperation, which creates the very outcome you're trying to avoid.
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Not a shit test, an enquiry about why you're such a perfect match. The power frame is "you seem to have qualities that I look for as a discerning high-value master of the universe". You put that in words like "You look like you have 2 of my weaknesses, maybe 3"
Now you don't have much choice but to finish what you've started. Wait a good bit of time, 48hrs+, and send a proper takeaway. ”If you’re too nervous, I’d understand”
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I think when I get matches like these, I get so impatient texting because I think she's going to leave me on read at any time (which has happened before while it seemed we were vibing). So I rush to get the number.
5 Posts (+2), 372 Cmts (+206)
A common problem... but step back and see how that belief leads to bad texting and the whiff of desperation, which creates the very outcome you're trying to avoid.