I keep trying and getting better with text game. Not all conversations go well but more and more lead to dates. With experience I’ve been able to develop different approaches depending on the profile and vibe. I still struggle irl because I’m working on my confidence in how I look. Wanted to share this as a simple example of getting a date using Alex’s openers but calibrating to the situation.
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20 Posts (+44), 109 Cmts (+59)
I have my kids 50/50 and I live pretty far away from the city. Once I’m in better shape I might be able to entice some women to do a first or second date at my place.
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Thanks for sharing bro. I ask because my new place isn’t as impressive so was wondering if you’ve gotten negative feedback that’s caused you to reconsider taking girls there first.
I probably live in a much more shallow city so would appreciate the insight before I encounter it more often than I expect.
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I wouldn’t worry too much about your place being impressive. Just make sure the place is tidy, toilets are clean, and that you have different drinks/snacks on hand. Most women will understand a guy lives there and aren’t expecting yuppie minimalism.