Text Game Decent, IRL Needs Improvement

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Chris Wilson Avatar

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Chris Wilson Avatar

20 Posts (+44), 109 Cmts (+59)

I keep trying and getting better with text game. Not all conversations go well but more and more lead to dates. With experience I’ve been able to develop different approaches depending on the profile and vibe.

I still struggle irl because I’m working on my confidence in how I look.

Wanted to share this as a simple example of getting a date using Alex’s openers but calibrating to the situation.

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avilench . Avatar

393 Posts (+1.3K), 15K Cmts (+5.3K)

This looks good man

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L

44 Posts (+21), 550 Cmts (+363)

I like how you calibrate in a more 'older guy' way, you don't come off too playerish while also confidently leading it forward to a firm date. hope you'll post more often and share your progress, I find it helpful to read your posts and comments 👊

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G

52 Posts (+30), 190 Cmts (+99)

Thanks for the example bro! Really thought that close was a reach but glad to be wrong and see she was receptive. Maybe because you mentioned taking her out rather than coming back to your place.

Do you always take girls out on dates?

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Chris Wilson Avatar

20 Posts (+44), 109 Cmts (+59)

I used to do dinners but now it’s just drinks or going somewhere fun. Drinks for obvious reasons like being relaxed, open, and being able to end it if it isn’t working. Somewhere fun because it can help with getting physically close, laughing together is always good, and even if the date doesn’t go anywhere you still have a good time.

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G

52 Posts (+30), 190 Cmts (+99)

Is there a reason you don’t invite them to the crib? Save money to put towards your goals and hobbies? These platforms ain’t cheap 😂

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