When you seed the date to plant the idea of you two on a date in her mind.. So when she asks what your up to you can say "just having a glass of wine on my romantic patio" the once she answers back you can say "we should split a bottle sometime"

If shes a virgin then cold feet is a huge likelihood. If it is just build more comfort with her via voice notes or a phone call. And make sure you tell her theres no expectations, maybe set the date up to a bar near yours first.

Id probably say "do you like wine?" or just ask what shes up to then go about soft closing her when she asks what your doing.

Nah this is the only conversation we've had. Yeah might try that actually nice one!

yeah your right. how do you transition it back to just vibing again to kill a few days of time? This is where i always mess up and either leave it too long before texting back or say something retarded haha

Still live with my folks so thats a no go. Dont know how to go forward