Comments by Tom S
Joined 6y agoForgot to mention this is on tinder but yea that’s what I’m gonna do after but wanted know if anyone had a good response for her “it can be whatever u want to be”
Yea agree was thinking it prob came off that way. Was going to use “it’s cool, I’m not either. Text is better“ line but wanted to experiment w something different. Tough lesson she was super hot lol
Yea I was just about to say she texts like she’s interviewing u. If anything I’d just respond to the bdsm text & see if you can build on that & close.
For which response, feel like I could say either or to build on the convo.
Bett. What would u follow up with, was thinking “do u live near the beach?”
Funny enough she actually did text me a few hrs later tonight & sent this... am I interpreting the previous texts wrong? I don’t know where the fuck to go with this Lol


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In this scenario, do your views on smashing on the first date still stand? I’m thinking açaí bowls & walk on beach, then going to a view. Prob best way to try to hook up imo, not sure how I’d lead the interaction to hook up without including going to a view.