Been having a rock solid convo with this fine ass South American girl from Hinge and we’ve tentatively set up a date for this coming Friday. But I’ve asked for her phone number twice and for some reason she hasn’t given it and has instead responded around it. How do I directly call it out in a chill way, I’ve been stuck on this for a couple days now so any quick response is appreciated. Thanks UPDATE: Lol I forgot to mention that I actually did reply not long after initially making this post, saying “Lol not a fan of iMessage I’m sensing”. There’s been no reply since and that was Monday morning. She’s updated her profile pic on the app since then too
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I (27y/o) have had this older FWB (41y/o) from Feeld for the past four months. We both agreed from very early on it wouldn’t get serious for a whole host of reasons, some of which are obvious. And she knows very well I’ve been seeing other women my age (that’s one of her kinks). She’s helped give me confidence I’ve never had before. But now the time has come to be making some roster cuts like an NBA GM, and although I’m not currently seeing anyone exclusively, I frankly have too many women around my age on my roster to even bother with an old lady anymore. We call on the phone a bit, but we haven’t seen each other in a month now. I’ve turned down her last two attempts to have me come over last minute for different reasons, and I also went silent from her last text to me on Friday. And now I’ve concluded that I’m just not that into her anymore. Should I end it via text or call? I already have an idea of exactly what I’d say (“I’ve enjoyed our times together but my plate’s getting fuller so I can’t give you the time or energy you need anymore). She only lives a half hour away from me but I wouldn’t wanna do it in person lest she think I’m tryna fuck. Thanks in advance! EDIT: I actually eventually called her to talk at the end of that week, and it ended up being a brief 7-minute call. I basically said what I would’ve sent over text and she understood. quick and painless
title says it all. some of the strongest texting i think i’ve ever had and yet I still got abruptly flaked on 24hrs before the date, with no offer to reschedule. not sad at all esp cuz I have another date tmrw anyway, just annoyed cuz I had been looking forward to this one
Mad screenshots incoming. Youngin on hinge and I had some great wolf of wall street roleplay (not screened). then we’ve kept up some solid flirtation and vibes thru the last few weeks but haven’t gotten to meet yet. we tentatively set ping-pong + drinks as a date, but I guess I gave the venue at the completely wrong time cuz she hasn’t responded. she already had slowed responses during her the work trip in the city but she had still engaged in convo so I wanna really try and get this one out. I already have a roster of three going but I’m esp intrigued by this one cuz she’s quite a bit younger than me and she’s south asian. I was planning on re-engaging tmrw (thursday); any suggestions? My homie told me where I went wrong in the last screenshot but wouldn’t tell me how to reinitiate cuz he’s notoriously slow to respond. any help is appreciated!!
Matched with this hot cougar on feeld yesterday, got her # today, tentatively set a date for Monday. but now she’s asked me “so why are you on feeld”. how do I reply?
Girl and I matched on tinder a week and a half ago before July 4, tried getting her out immediately but for some reason that didn’t work. Distracted me with an unprompted nude that night lol. Have been trying to get her out after sexting but to no avail, even with another unprompted nude sent. Then on Fri I tried to actually set plans in motion but no response. Frustrating to say the least. Stuck on whether to use “don’t be shy” or “look if you’re not into this lmk and i can stop trying” as a takeaway here. Any thoughts?
