"Well the requirements for that would be you, me and my charms in my favorite coffee shop/bar" that's the best I could come up with

Just know that you ain't the only one like this. In fact if you open your eyes widely you'll see a lot of insecurities in people. So you ain't alone, that should feel better. Now get into self-improvement and grind your way up until you're the man you desire. You got this bro

Yeah haircuts are always better than not getting them. I liked The 8th photo most. I think you should relax your left hand. It seems like it's super uncomfortable