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Posts by Niko Bellic

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Confused by long wait time and double texted

We texted each other for a little and she had pretty quick and detailed responses and seemed pretty engaged. Until she just didn’t respond to my messages on Sunday. I decided to double text because I have nothing to lose. She still took another whole day to respond and wanted to know what I should do. I do feel a little disappointed by it because he went from really good to like no responses but her replies sound like that she’s pretty interesting so I don’t know what to do with it and how to take it. Let me know on a response. Should I confront her which I feel like I shouldn’t but also I don’t want to let it go just like that so I’m not sure what’s the best course of action to do. And yes the Netanyahu line was because she’s Palestinian, I searched her up on IG and saw the flag but it doesn’t mention it anywhere on her dating account so maybe she knows I looked her up. Let me know the best course of action .

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6mo ago

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Looking for simple conversations restarted after a couple of days have passed by

Anybody got some good reliable pictures/screenshots of memes or anything to send to a girl instead of sending any variation of “Hey what’s up?”

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9mo ago

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Messing with this girl at work, we’re in different departments but we see each often where we can talk for long periods and it’s definitely some flirty vibes but she got a man (he’s a bitch and I know she’s cheated on him before). I wanted to know if yall have any good comebacks to denials like, “I don’t mess with coworkers” or “I have a BF” that I expect to be coming when I ask her to hang out with me outside of work. Info about her: that might help or not: She used to be fat but is a bad bitch rn. Her personality is the I don’t care about money stuff. Lives an hour and a half away from where I do so there’s some logistics problems.

2y ago

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Girl who used to be interested in me liked my IG video

Context: Post a video of myself looking good at the airport on my IG story, chick that follows me hearths the video and I remember her being interested in me long time ago but I didn’t let her make a move successfully (was being dry). I find her cute tho so I do want to make a move now. We haven’t talked since I was dry with her but we follow each on IG. Anyone ideas how to open, never done it through Instagram either just been using dating apps. We’re both 23 years old.

3y ago

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Good reply opener

Been replied this a couple of time either because they don’t understand English that we’ll or because they’re trying to get hard to get a little, either way, was sobering what’s a good reply to this

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3y ago

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Getting mixed feelings

We have a very good back and forth I felt like at least and kinda went to amuse myself on the hot sex and cuddles reply rather than escalating which is dumb but whatever. I tried planting the soft close on her but I think she’s sensing it’s coming and think it’s too early to close, we’ve only talk for less than a day but fuck it. Lmk what I should do with this reply. Like I said, sensing she likes me but I went too early for the date. Btw, the picture she posted makes her look like bad bitch, she not with the face.

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3y ago

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Usually would go for hookups but she said relationship

Usually from this question I get the “I go off the vibe.” Type bs but she said this. 2 things I’d like to know. 1. How should I respond since I’m open to maybe having a relationship. 2. She’s is definetely the bratty type of girl who gives a lot of attitude so it might be sarcasm to scare me off. (Plus we all know because they say relationship doesn’t mean they want that. If you need additional conversations pics let me know it’s not long as we both take time to respond so it’s slow. Let me know what I should do. I don’t have a much of a sexual bio fyi, just the “what is the hallmark of a great relationship: communication and great sex.”

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Need a help a little confused

Context: We were messaging each other pretty well, I sent the whispering line. Her response (she’s 18) made me think she was really into me (might still be). I sent the foreplay paragraph just as a test things out if it’s a thing I should do in the future, looking back maybe I should’ve replied with “do you want it to happen or should I just talk about it?”. Moving on she doesn’t respond for 2 days after the paragraph and I sent her the first message in the second picture but doesn’t acknowledge she ignored me for a whole 2 days. I’m wondering if I should ignore and answer her question in whatever way. I kinda want to keep her since we’re the same ethnicity but I won’t keep it if she’s gonna be like this (maybe I’m in my ego too much rn). Either way, what should I do, ignore it and answer her question or bringing it back up again? Might be a little schizo but I’m reading to unlearn it.

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3y ago

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Overthinking need some clarity

I have a feeling the way I respond is how she’ll decide if she wants to hang out with me or not. She pretty much gave me a whole week of days to chill with her, (I’m busy the other days) and she’s kinda I feel like backing off. That she might not want to chill if she goes and parties. I don’t want to offer second choice and be like, “well if you’re not celebrate with me.” And I don’t want to invite myself to the celebration and be like “come celebrate with me.” I was thinking of being nonchalant and just say, “it’s up to you to chose.” Or a “lmk” but feeling like it’s too nonchalant. I thinking I’m overthinking this one I just need some clarity, let me know what I should do.

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3y ago

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Part 2 of a shit test I posted previously here

So this is a second part, I let the tension last a bit since I didn’t find the need to reply quickly and she decided to text again with something very forward. Any thoughts on how I should handle this. First thought is, “well lucky for you I’m a great cuddler.” But that seems like I’m selling to her I want her to sell to me so let me know. Second thought is I invite her to drinks but she also doesn’t want to go out so I kinda want to find a way to make her invite me to her place. LMK

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