Comments by R S
Joined 5y ago"Just changing this bio now I got to read what I wrote just a year ago and man things have changed. Ever since I found this channel I've been slowly but surely working on increasing my success with girls it can be a struggle at times but if I look back on all the things that have happened in real life that I only dreamt about before it still sounds surreal. Hoping that once I change this bio a year from now I will have taken my game to an even higher level"
As a fellow tech guy, I can confirm this is the case for most of us.
But a way I deal with it is to tell myself: The lack of sense in an interaction is what makes sense.
Because humans are susceptible to confusion more than they are to logic when a girl has no clear idea of what's going on between you two she will react instinctively and thus could trigger the primal sexual response you want her to, whereas if it was all logical and made perfect sense she will never feel compelled to do the thing she knows she probably shouldn't be doing
I might be a bit late since you probably replied between 2 days ago and now: but just for argument's sake I'd say it's a good line you would definitely be on the right track wit the sexual buildup, like if she insists saying "explain anyway" you can say "I would rather show you but just know it might involve a bit of a cardio workout" still dancing around it but getting more to the point
Dude that was beautifully set up and masterfully executed, I'm at an intermediary level of online game and I know that when an interaction goes this good I will be getting the date.
But one thing that can be useful is some banter to build comfort such as "what do you do for work, do you have any hobbies, are you a serial killer..." you know the kind of stuff that will get her more invested and interested in meeting up. The best closes come from a healthy mix of flirty fun suggestive roleplays and down-to-earth get-to-know-you stuff just so she knows you're a real human being.
One major piece of advice Alex often gives on youtube which I think holds a lot of merits is you need to separate the work from the out of work, so no flirting at work or anything remotely suggestive. I'll add my one take to that saying try to minimize time with her at work so that you don't enforce the friendly coworker frame.
All your work needs to be done over text outside of work hours, and again since screenshots could be used against you if she decides to report harassment you have to text as if your texts will be read by HR and make sure you don't compromise yourself.
But you also need the result so I think the best approach is to try setting up a date by saying "hey I'm not doing anything this weekend wanna go grab a coffee together?' do not specify it to be a romantic date but also do not specify it is a friendly thing, the ambiguity will help build up interest. Also, do flirt over text but don't say anything sexual or too forward just use humor to your advantage to get her to think '"This guy is definitely worth my time".
On the date you treat it like a normal date, you flirt you escalate you sexualize the conversation when you can and if she goes along with it then you pull her back to your place, if not you never cross a hard line just so you can remain co-workers later, be a good sport about rejection that is important as well
Oh no I didn't mention it like a job application. I've been playfuly hinting at it for two days now and she was actually playing along with me.
Then when I said the park would be too far if we expect to do it she agreed that's when I knew that if I turned it into a serious conversation she would say yes. And surely enough she did, in fact she agreed to the sex before I even brought up the wine so that came as like a seal the deal kinda thing. We'll see on tuesday if she goes through with it all (I'm optimistic she'll be in my bed)
Yes absolutely. In fact between my last reply and now I went back to build investment and managed to scrub the park date and have her come right over for some wine and some sex (quite literally that's how it was said) now I gotta focus on winning the actual date since most of the work is done already
- I am screening out any girl out expresses she wants a relationship right away but I am not making sure the girl I meet is 100% DTF.
-I do bring up sex and make jokes and remarks about what I could do to her and things like that, but I never had a full sexting session before meeting.
-We meet in public. I tried to invite girls to my place before but it seems here in pairs "come to hang out at my place" means "I wanna hook up" they all say they wanna meet first.
-During the date I struggle right after I get the introductions out of the way (the where you from and what do you do...) after that I try to take the conversation into a sexual direction but the girls never get on the same page with me they continue with the banter or change the subject when they notice what I'm trying to do.
-I was not able to makeout with anyone in France yet. I used to back home but here it just doesn't go that way.
And a key thing is I live in student housing, so it's a big house. I have my own room for now but share a kitchen and bathroom with other students from my college and that usually alarms girls and they get defensive about coming over.
Alright I'll scrub them all and take a new set.
Thanks for that, I had my doubts if they were good or not. But getting confirmation from a professional definitely settles it.
I already seen the pictures tutorial but I will watch it more closely again.
Appreciate the time and assistance.
This is what it's been looking like for a week now.
I switched a couple of photoshoot photos for ones I took in paris just to prove I'm actually IN the city.
Bio has been up for a few days too, I tried all kinds of different bios (some more sexual, some descriptive...)






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Sitting on the floor in the suit needs to go you look the very opposite of sharp. the competition is a good one since you have a legit professional excuse to flex muscles, the barbeque one is good for sure but the rest need to go , the top-down angle is ruining your figure and making your legs look weird you need pictures taken from eye level they work better