Hi guys, basically looking for feedback back on if I could have handled this better for if it happens in the future. I matched with a hot tinder girl about 2 weeks ago. She showed very low interest on tinder, basically just asked me to add her snap which I did. Tried starting a convo over snap twice and she just replied with snaps with no words. I then sent her a snap saying "talkative girls are more my type" and she replied with another no word snap that I left on read. She sent a few more snaps with no words over the next couple days that I left on read, until finally she started putting effort in, we started talking, and pretty quickly she was trying to talk all the time. Scheduled a date after a quick phone call (like 10 minutes, she asked for the call). Kept snapping me all the time until the date, said she wasn't going to sleep with me (we all know what that means by now) and I picked her up on the scheduled day. Fully done up hair, makeup, knee high leather stilleto boots, looks amazing. I drive around a bit to get her comfortable, and then bring her up to my hotel room. Start making out pretty much right away, she comes on to me really hard and we have a great night. The last few days she's been snapping me all the time again, I'd have a convo sometimes and sometimes just leave it unread for a half a day depending on what I was doing. This afternoon we were snapping, made tentative plans for this weekend depending if it worked for me, sexting a little, and I asked her her biggest fantasy to which she replied and then she asked me, and I replied something about enjoying threesomes and wanting to have sex on a tower. She immediately said she wasn't into girls, and I just said I see. Then she said "maybe we're not a good match we're to different" and I said " maybe. I'm an angel and you're always getting me into trouble" basicly just flipping the script on her. Maybe I should have went for more comfort here instead? Then she said she got strep from me. I'm thinking wtf that could literally be from touching a doorknob and then your mouth, that's not an sti or anything so I asked "just strep or am actually sti? I just tested clean a month ago. Strep could be from anywhere." She says strep, and she's "only been with me in the last few months. But whatever she's feeling better now just doesn't want anything else no offense" and I just said "I can understand that" maybe I should have changed the subject or something at that point instead? She read it right away and then replied a couple hours later. I waited a couple hours and then opened it and its simply "goodnight" I replied "night" but it didn't go through, its pending meaning she blocked me. Any thoughts on if I could have done anything different? Its weird as she's obviously had strep for like a week at this point, has been thinking its from me, and was still snapping me all the time and sending sexy pics, so strep probably isn't the actual issue. This girls is a published model with 15k insta followers, and I've seen her snap, there's literally unopened snaps from guys for like 3 or 4 pages. I got her by basically putting out my boundaries and not giving her attention until she met them. Maybe I became to available snapping with her once or twice a day, although she was always initiating and I was giving her less than she was giving me? This girls young and inexperienced, she said like one or 2 partners before me, lost her virginity in the last year. Very enthusiastic and eager to please, but needed some guidance in the bedroom. Loved when I called her my naughty little girl over text. From that I read her as being inexperienced but open to exploring, but maybe I scared her off with mentioning using handcuffs and threesomes, (didn't ask her to be in one just said I liked them.) Or she's just young and hot and on tinder and found something new and more exciting for her. I have her number, what do you think of dropping a text in a week or two and see if that's blocked too / see what's up. Really nothing to lose.
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Hey! I cold approached this milf in a parking lot a couple days ago and we talked for about 10 minutes. Just my type but probably 30 years older than girls I'd usually talk to, she's around 50 but could pass for 35. Decent kinda flirty vibe, I could have been slightly more flirty but she definitely knew why I was there. I made the mistake of asking her age, with the obvious age gap it would have been better to just leave it unsaid. I asked for her number and she gave it after a little hesitation. Tried to set up drinks that night but she was busy and suggested maybe this weekend. I said sure that might work, I'll text you when I know my schedule and left shortly after. The screenshot below starts about an hour after we parted ways. I'm unsure how to proceed, as she was interested enough to give her number and suggest that this weekend might work for drinks, but then replies with a pretty polite but solid not interested. Would you treat it as a shit test and just say something like "Scared you can't keep up ; p" Treat it as comfort test, not sure on the correct response for that. Any other ideas/tips? Thanks
I'm getting decent matches but not the quality I'd like. Open to any advice you guys have on order, selection, styling, and taking new pics. Currently using pics 1 - 7 in that order
Hey! New here good to meet all you glorious bastards This girl just goes " fuck off" right off the open, never got that before. I assume its a shittest or she would just not reply/unmatch? Couple replies I thought of: "Show me how I'm a virgin" basically a nonsensical reply to her nonsense message "Maybe after dinner sweetheart" misinterpret as sexual "Are you always so cool" sarcasticly call her out. Thought?
