Field report/ Light switched blocked by high interest girl

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J

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J

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Hi guys, basically looking for feedback back on if I could have handled this better for if it happens in the future.

I matched with a hot tinder girl about 2 weeks ago. She showed very low interest on tinder, basically just asked me to add her snap which I did.

Tried starting a convo over snap twice and she just replied with snaps with no words. I then sent her a snap saying "talkative girls are more my type" and she replied with another no word snap that I left on read. She sent a few more snaps with no words over the next couple days that I left on read, until finally she started putting effort in, we started talking, and pretty quickly she was trying to talk all the time.

Scheduled a date after a quick phone call (like 10 minutes, she asked for the call). Kept snapping me all the time until the date, said she wasn't going to sleep with me (we all know what that means by now) and I picked her up on the scheduled day. Fully done up hair, makeup, knee high leather stilleto boots, looks amazing. I drive around a bit to get her comfortable, and then bring her up to my hotel room. Start making out pretty much right away, she comes on to me really hard and we have a great night.

The last few days she's been snapping me all the time again, I'd have a convo sometimes and sometimes just leave it unread for a half a day depending on what I was doing.

This afternoon we were snapping, made tentative plans for this weekend depending if it worked for me, sexting a little, and I asked her her biggest fantasy to which she replied and then she asked me, and I replied something about enjoying threesomes and wanting to have sex on a tower. She immediately said she wasn't into girls, and I just said I see. Then she said "maybe we're not a good match we're to different" and I said " maybe. I'm an angel and you're always getting me into trouble" basicly just flipping the script on her. Maybe I should have went for more comfort here instead?

Then she said she got strep from me. I'm thinking wtf that could literally be from touching a doorknob and then your mouth, that's not an sti or anything so I asked "just strep or am actually sti? I just tested clean a month ago. Strep could be from anywhere."

She says strep, and she's "only been with me in the last few months. But whatever she's feeling better now just doesn't want anything else no offense" and I just said "I can understand that" maybe I should have changed the subject or something at that point instead? She read it right away and then replied a couple hours later. I waited a couple hours and then opened it and its simply "goodnight" I replied "night" but it didn't go through, its pending meaning she blocked me.

Any thoughts on if I could have done anything different? Its weird as she's obviously had strep for like a week at this point, has been thinking its from me, and was still snapping me all the time and sending sexy pics, so strep probably isn't the actual issue. This girls is a published model with 15k insta followers, and I've seen her snap, there's literally unopened snaps from guys for like 3 or 4 pages. I got her by basically putting out my boundaries and not giving her attention until she met them. Maybe I became to available snapping with her once or twice a day, although she was always initiating and I was giving her less than she was giving me?

This girls young and inexperienced, she said like one or 2 partners before me, lost her virginity in the last year. Very enthusiastic and eager to please, but needed some guidance in the bedroom. Loved when I called her my naughty little girl over text. From that I read her as being inexperienced but open to exploring, but maybe I scared her off with mentioning using handcuffs and threesomes, (didn't ask her to be in one just said I liked them.)

Or she's just young and hot and on tinder and found something new and more exciting for her.

I have her number, what do you think of dropping a text in a week or two and see if that's blocked too / see what's up. Really nothing to lose.

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avilench . Avatar

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props on the patentice man, you definitely played this one correctly initially. one thing i want to clarify, did you guys fuck? the post suggests that you did but i wanna cement my response

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J

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Yes we fucked the one time we hungout.

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avilench . Avatar

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got it man, i think the issue here is that you are too passive and that you gotta stand up for yourself. WHen she said maybe we are to differnet i would have said "how" get her to elaborate. When she accused you of the strep i would have said no, i dont have strep. So you didnt get it from me. again, you gotta be firm and stand up for yourself without getting butthurt. In terms of what you can do next, can you post the last screenshot. I know snap can be difficult but you can use another device to take the picture.

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