I fixed it, this was probably the best route to go and it got her a bit more interested, yeah I had a royal fuck up right there. Here's what I did

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Do what you normally would, she didn't give a pickup line or anything so she just showed that she was more so into you then just matching. Possibilities are endless.

You can't really go from "that's tuff" and act like you genuinely didn't care about her personal problem, into "what're you doing on tinder". Sorta insensitive.

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You won't get shadow'd for resetting after a few months, hardly a few weeks. I reset after a month and I'm doing fine IG