On Bumble, after some messaging/lite sexting (solid DTF vibes), and after numbers are exchanged, the girl hits me with "R u seeing multiple women at the same time?" What would be an optimal response here?

if the girl doesn't drink (regardless of age) what are some good alternatives to get her over instead of 'let's split a bottle of wine on my romantic patio'? I don't cook unfortunately : /

What are your general strategies/tips for Hinge - do you agree that you should only like questions vs. actual pics? Do you comment with your like, or wait for the girl to like back/match first? Any other tips? Thanks!

when a girl matches with you and messages you first with something generic (hey, how are you; how was your weekend, etc), where your bio is slightly sexual (similar to yours) is it still best to proceed in a genuine / similar way (matching her vibe), or should the goal be to gradually change the vibe to playful/sexual. Just seems like some girls don't always respond well when making things playful - is there anyway to key in on this before hand or things to look out for? Should the goal still be to setup a wine date at home if the overall conversation never really got flirty or sexual, but there was ample investment to carry things forward?