Comments by J J
Joined 2y ago"23 yo m"
private account forces you to follow to see, plus she referenced her insta in almost every message to you.
hard to reply as youve already sent something but i wouldve said
'challenge accepted, you can prove it on our romantic date'
'impress me in person on our romantic date'
'handling you would be the easy part, making you leave after would be the challenge' - dunno 😂
ive only had one of these on bumble, i just answered it how i would in person but with a slightly gamey twist. if you both say same thing then sweet. if you both say something very different then you can just change the subject or tease them
also check her Instagram out which I assume you have done. you should be able to tell if she is just fishing for followers.
take control of the conversation and try stop over-investing. shorten your messages be concise and unapologetic on your purpose. i think you are on your last chance with this one so proceed like a G or its game over.
Couple of days, send didn’t take you for the flakey type, plus depends how concrete the plans In the app were, also sometimes girls get nervous about replying and literally forget.
male perspective is different, unless youre after men, you should check with female.
Also you want to set the scene, ask yourself, could the girl imagine being the one behind the camera, at a cute picnic sitting against a tree. hiking taking photos, playing with your dog. GREAT settings and ideas, but just need to relax and be more in the moment.
pic 1 | shirt is creased, very poser. 1/3. try better fitting shirt, and getting a view in the background. and turning your body at an angle from the camera.
pic 2 | 2/3 ok photo but not a main pic,
pic 3 | 2/3 good idea, but little to poser. almost had me thinking you were on a picnic with a girl and she snapped a quick photo while your was looking at something. but its just a little to poser.
Pic 4 | 2/3 shows your active and interests,
pic 5 | 2/3 if you was looking away from camera a bit would be really good.
pic 6 | 2/3 cute dog, if you was looking at the dog would be really good.
im not doing the rest. Guitar one is good.
go back and watch the video alex did, dont look to poser, be more in the moment.
Overall good selection, some better than others, some only need small tweeks and would be above average.
depends how sexual convo is. really sexual or youre confident a full DP will be received well. send full DP. if its semi sexual or not sure how shell take a full DP, send clothed DP of hard dick in pants or joggers.
us guys can only help from male perspective which is different to females. best bet for better answers is to message a female.
- solid pic 3/3
- good pic 2/3 shows active and fun
- 1/3 not clear and bit poser
- 2/3 its good photo but why are you in a suit on the street, should be at a social event or something.
- 0/3 im assuming this was accidentally put on here. dont use.
again this is males perspective which is almost pointless unless youre after men.

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What reply would be too sexual ?