Posts by Mank Hoody
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Note : I am from Bangalore (India). I cold approached this young pretty average looking girl.Got her number. Got her to meet the next day over a hot beverage outside after which I kind of pulled her over to my place though she was not very keen. (It seemed that she was just nervous/not sure) . We put on a movie and after a few mins or so I started to escalate but she kept resisting every advance I made. She was okay with hand holding and soft kisses on the cheek but anything more than that was met with resistance. We had a few beers and got pretty high and even after which I faced resistance to all the moves I made. After that I gave up and let her rest.Later I dropped her to her place which is close to my place. I am devastated as this is the first time I was able to pull a chick to my place ever. Where did I go wrong ? Is there any hope for me? I am not able to recover from this failure.I feel like giving up. avilench .
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Met a married milf last month, exchanged numbers after a short convo cuz I felt she was really into me the way she was staring at me while we were talking. Texted her that night to just say "It was nice meeting you today".She replied in the same tone. Tried being a bit funny by sending a one liner joke the next day but she kept me on read. After a few days, texted again, she didn't respond. After a few days, called out her flaky behaviour in a non needy way and she immediately responded with lot of apologies and how she was super busy a d missed my texts and even told me that she wants to meet me up for "coffee or lunch". I told her I am ok with coffee and lunch doesn't interest me. I was being non-needy (atleast thats what I think) and we worked out the logistics of the date.Notably, she insisted on a day date citing her weekend evening classes and I agreed for a day date. I followed up a day before the date to confirm but she ghosted on me saying she is sick and down with the flu and she would love to meet me once she is well. I didn't try to reschedule and I just said "Rest well". After 4-5 days, I just asked her how she was and she has kept me on read ever since. I didn't re-engage her cuz I didn't feel right. Dear Men, I am requesting your thoughts/feelings on What does the girl's behavior says ? What went wrong with my approach ? Should I re-engage her and in what way ?
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I am 35 and I married reasonably happily and I want to do Game for few months casually ( I had an arrange marriage at an early age and never really experienced dating or Game). I also want to have an honest conversation with my wife regarding this need of mine and I want to make her understand and keep her in confidence that this will be purely casual and fun and not lead to anything. Dear Men, what could be a good approach to start this discussion with her ? How should I make her understand this need of mine and also make her comfortable and acceptable of this.
7 Posts (+3), 9 Cmts (+2)
