Thanks, I'll probably go the local route after talking to the photographer. She seemed to understand, and the photos I took before looked a little posed to me.

Thanks for the comments sorry it took a while to respond. I've noticed a good dip in the scammers o I think tinder is starting to crack down which is a good sign.

Thanks for the replies I've noticed this go down recently so I guess tinder is picking the scammers up better.