Depends on how hard core you want to screen and your overall smv, for guys who are naturally lower smv it's a generally a bad idea to be restrictive as you want to increase your odds, at the same time If I assume your average and that your pics are on point than just remember this general rule. More extreme sexual profile less overall matches=the ones who do match are more likely dtf, the inverse of this by the way is also generally true, again depends on what you personally want and your marketed smv on your profile

"Ah one of my two weaknesses, a girl who can do paperwork" now if she replies well to this and ask what's the second weakness? Make sure to then pivot this conversation to a more sexual playful theme to get out of the 20 questions that lead to a dead end mode

" I use to be pretty good at photography way back when, at the time my Dominican girlfriend knew all the best spots to shoot, maybe I could teach you all about photos on our romantic date"

Bro, by being over eager in cuddling her you accidentally set the frame of you being creepy, you have to understand that from a girls perspective to much investment In a quick amount of time signals that you must not have a lot of other options if your so keen on cuddling her, the best chance you have now to recover is simply tone it way down and build more comfort then lead to a more playful roleplay where the idea of you two being intimate makes sense

Bro I understand where you were trying to go with this but this girl most likely has an underlying concern. you have to dig a bit more to undercover it then address, otherwise she'll talk herself out of meeting up with you