@avilench ?

Bruh you look decent enough, just use some AI pics, get hingeX and bumble tinder subscription. Things will get way more easier and for texting game... PWF's videos are the best, they've helped me a lot.

Yeah, saw one of your videos on how to maintain the attraction when dating or with FWB and that line of yours "I feel something is off, you can tell me what's up" feels gold honestly, I think pairing that up with "look, if you're not into this, just lmk and i can stop trying" could potentially work in my favour?

Idk I mean I haven't tried this line with other girls. But, would you recommend talking about this over call, voice note or text?

It ain't like we never met or the chemistry was bad that call would be so awkward but curious to know what you have to say 🤷🏻‍♂️

P.S - I do in fact have other leads and planning on meeting them but since I already have some good chemistry and we've made-out, I feel it'll be wasted efforts with this one, but if it doesn't work out... cool, on to next one.

Nahh bro, seems like you didn't read my post in it's entirety. I met her on dating app, and for the second date went out at a party. It ain't like we'd keep bumping into each other.

As for leads, been using hinge for a month, got total 75-80 matches, current active 40 matches (rest either unmatched or deleted their profiles) went out with 2 other women before meeting this girl, but didn't feel the vibe and chemistry.

As for context, I'm from India, and culturally it's not that easy and fast to escalate and speed date like an avg American :)

Yeah no the thread is wayyy tooo long because we met twice in a span of week and had fun banters in between over text, but we made out like a couple of times on our second date, and so it seemed to escalate things slightly, test waters and send lay-up texts made the most sense to me that's why I sent.

I already waited 24h+ and sent her a skeleton meme "waiting for your text be like" and still no response to that.

And as Alex says you can never predict or know the actual reason behind getting ghosted, even after things have been going super smooth. So it's all upon how she's feeling at the moment and how emotionally reactive she is at that point.

I might wait a week or so and send her a final takeaway, but I'm not sure what it should be... "hey if you're upset about something you can share it with me but if you've lost interest no hard feelings :)" or should I just say “Hey, I enjoyed meeting you. If you’re up for meeting again, let me know. If not, no worries—take care.”

Yeah bro, I do have firetexts (as I mentioned above) but since it only reads the last 10 texts and we already went out twice, I know her a little bit, a more context was required. I do think I prob hit point of no return, not because I didn't close maybe because she felt too rushed, so I sent her one of your skeleton meme "waiting for your text be like". (before you replied here)

Idk if I should triple text and be persistent and ask if "hey if you're upset about something you can share it with me but if you've lost interest no hard feelings :)" or just say “Hey, I enjoyed meeting you. If you’re up for meeting again, let me know. If not, no worries—take care.”

I mean it ain't like I'm super sold on this girl, but I've seen a lot of your videos where you were persistent even after getting blocked and all and you flipped the tables and it worked in your favour.

Point of no return? Maybe or may not be, because culturally women are bit reserved here. Not completely dismissing what you're saying but okay might be true.

When you say change the topic, wdym? Like invite her out again by saying “Still thinking about last night a little… we should do that again soon ;)” or should I send one of your "waiting for your text be like" skeleton meme or which direction should I move this into?

Okay, while yeah it might help me atm it's something wayyy beyond my affordability. Maybe in future if my finances allow I might.

Where can I get more details about the coaching call or mastermind group? It seems the link in pinned posts leads to your ultimate dating blueprint course only.

Would lose the context, it's my date exp. Still used chatgpt to summarize it...

24M from Mumbai, been on Hinge for ~2–3 weeks. Using strong AI photos + decent prompts → got ~40 matches (29 active). Conversations are generally good, I escalate playfully, and I’m using Hinge X.

Problem is dates.

Date 1 (23F):

Low receptiveness from the start. Didn’t respond well to humor or flirting, set physical boundaries early (wouldn’t sit close), was distracted on her phone, and talked about an old fling trying to get her back. Vibe felt off, no escalation possible. Got blocked after.

Date 2 (25F):

Great texting chemistry, somewhat receptive but not fully into sexual vibe. On the date, she was fun but physically reserved. Didn’t engage with flirting/escalation, avoided dancing, and became hesitant after realizing I’m younger (24 vs 25). Also mentioned past casual phase. No real progression.

Overall issues:

• Good matches + texting ≠ good dates
• Women seem unsure what they want (“not serious but not random”)
• Many are unresponsive, flaky, or ghost after good conversations
• On dates, escalation feels blocked even when vibe seems decent

Question:

Am I doing something wrong with escalation/vibe, or is this just a numbers game and I need more dates?