The girls liked these ones as well..

I max out my likes on hinge and bumble. I have tinder gold, so I swipe sporadically throughout the day. I asked 3 girls that I hooked up with before and they all said the photos are solid. 2 of them actually liked the one that you said to remove.

Yeah, I’m on all 3 and my volume is shit on all of them. Even on feeld. So I’m not sure if the issue is with the photos or not, because I also thought they were solid.

Not so active but down for this

My ig is mohamedsallam13

Had one of these literally a few days ago. The way I get around it while still being in control of the frame is saying “ah think I’m too good to be true” and then when she agrees, “I have a better idea” and from there offer to facetime for a min or two.

If you have the date set up, I’d just like the message and re-engage the day of to confirm.

Sexualizing is good man. It helps you screen. And you went about it the right way, as it’s not out of the blue. She asked you, and you literally pulled back a bit before she gave you the green light. Now you can sexualize, and she can’t even get mad at you because she gave you the go ahead.

You’re on the right track but use the we frame.

“It includes you and I, spanking, and multiple squirting orgasms” or something similar. High risk, high reward.

I’ve counted a minimum of 9 😂😂

It’s a fine balance but eventually you get it over time. Your main priority should always be to move things forward. A few things I would have done differently:

First screenshot when she suggests the double date I would have said “I have a better idea”. That baits her, and you set yourself into moving towards the date.

“Patiently waiting for another invite to go for cocktails” is pretty low value imo. It implies that she’s the prize and you’re waiting around for her. Also it communicates to her that you won’t lead the way.

Like I said man, the main thing is just constant back and forth texting without you moving things forward. That’s really a killer for attraction bro, but I reckon this one can be salvaged. She seems pretty invested. Just take charge going forward.

She’s literally implying you’re the opposite of vanilla...