Yeah agree with you and Hansi here that the key is being respectful. It's a long shot- but always worth a shot! Thanks for the ideas, I'll say something similar.

only message I didn't like was "whats your schedule like." Instead of that I would have offered 2 evenings for her to choose from like "lets have on wine date wednesday or friday at 8"

also, first time poster but long time lurker and fan of the channel. thanks for all the content