IMO, there is a big difference between not caring what people think of you and having the courage to approach a group of 10 attractive girls. But to overcome the fear of approaching groups and doing presentations in front of large audiences, you just need exposure therapy. E.g., just start doing it even though you are scared, and it will get less scary the more times you do it.

"I didn't take you for a girl who was all talk" No need to add the maybe
it would have been bvetter used instead of "well that's no fun", I don't really see that line ever yielding anything postive

My copy paste answer to that objection is "I don't use snap anymore. If you end up hating me you can always block my number", but it properbly wouldnt work on her since she seems pretty set on not giving numbers. Sometimes I just take the snap and its a 50/50 if your are going to get lost in the sauce

Well in this one you just had to respect "stanger danger" alot more, and make sure she knows you care about her being comfortable. When a girls doesn't want to go to your place, you can safely assume she also doesn't want to get in your car (imo), and its kinda odd you want her to come to your place and then drive from there, either go and pick her op at her place or tell her to meet you there

So if she is saying things like "stranger danger" and stuff, you need to go "You can meet me here and I can drive us if you are cool with that, or we can just meet at the bar" if that makes sense

I know you are good enough to word out you own responses so just go with something along the lines of
"Well, It's about time you find out how much you like being tied up and dominated completly" (assuming you actually know how to tie her up lol)

I think it would be a mistake to change subject tattoos and piercings

"Oh, I'll try not to. But a little spark never hurt anyone, right?" you can add a ;) at the end if you feel like it

"And yet, you are going to love it when I show you"

Doesn't make 100% perfect sense, but it will properly work

“are you always this difficult to plan 2nd date with” is very nuclear imo, so hard to know if u should use it with so little context, and she is still responding positivly to a joke, she might not have understood, if you havent talked about her being you eye appointment before hand

Id just go with "whats your schedule like"

First of all good job on going on a date man, the first date is always the hardest, been there myself (everybody has lol)

So some notes, deepending on the girl and how the convo went before meeting, not escalating is fine(As long you have made it dead clear you vibe with her/kissed or other things)
But on a second date you NEED to atleast get physical even if its just a kiss

Regarding you message after the 2nd date, I think that is an incredibly akward msg imo, why are you saying "nice meeting" you on a second date, just why? you have already met before, no?

The way I do it now is, when they leave I tell them to msg me when the get home safe, and if you showed them a good time some will just say "Hey Hansi, Im back home now, Thanks for the date i had so much fun, hope to see you again" or if they don't send something i go "Hey gorgeous, thanks for coming, I had a great time" its okay to use compliments more loosly after a date and show a bit of passion

I don't know what you mean about the skin stuff, if you are scared of catching stuff just bail out bro

So what to do now, the fact the she is ignoring you after 2 dates, thats a pretty bad sign, I would just ignore it and send her a message about something you talked about on your date, should be funny or relevant (wait some days)

Good luck

Well, id just go
"So if alcoholic and non-alcoholic drinks are out of the picture, what does a date entail?"
I hate playing the guessing game with chicks bcs i fcks the flow, so i just ask directly when they say no to my idea