Comments by Uknown Chud
Joined 1y ago6 Posts (+1), 26 Cmts (+0)
I think just go straight to the point. If she doesn't have interest, it will just die. By the messages in chat, you seem more invested than her, and that may have killed the interaction. That last message seemed a bit passive aggressive also.
I would just talk to her a bit about how is her day going, and if she isn't interested in talking, she is not interested. If she does talk, then I will just invite her to a date.
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That's not necessarily the issue. There can be many factors into play. I've been instantly rejected by girls of my same race. Maybe they found me ugly? (event though I know im not). Maybe she was lesbian? Maybe she didn't want to get into trouble with her husband? there's many possible reasons.
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You need to know when is time to stop. If she already showed indicators of disinterest, STOP. Otherwise, you might get into trouble.
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But honestly I don't want to. Maybe just tease her? There needs to be a way to know her better, before getting involved. I just don't want to escalate too fast.
Also sometimes it's more enjoyable to go slowly and form a special connection. I've had sex on first or second date, and many times, the thing just dies. I lose interest.
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I cant never get real looking photos with AI. What software do you recommend? Ive seen some apps or services online, but its cheaper to just ask a friend to take me cool photos
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I once arranged 3 dates, each in each day, during 3 days. I arranged them, like 2-3 days before. And when the days came, all of them canceled me. Also, once I arranged with them, I stop talking to them.
Since then, I always talk to them, until the date comes. In fact, I try to always at least greet them each day, even after the first/second date.
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yes i think so. She probably thought you werent that much interested in her, and thats why she made plans. At the start, you need to treat them very specially. Remember they tend to have many options.
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I think that you should never arrange a date for some days later, and not message her between those days. In my experience, they almost always they cancel, if you didnt message them. At the start you need to be more invested in her, than she in you.
Just keep messaging her, and remind her of the date one day before, and the same day. For me, it works most of the time.
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If you are having sex with her, I wouldnt mind other guys. In my experience, girls tend to only focus on one guy. There exist the possiblity you are having sex with her, and she is interested in someone else; however I dont think you can do much about it, and the situation wont last for much.
Have you talked to her that you want something serious with her? briefly hint it to her, and if she doesnt respond well, then case lost.

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I don't do it in the first dates, because I'm afraid of STDs.