I once arranged 3 dates, each in each day, during 3 days. I arranged them, like 2-3 days before. And when the days came, all of them canceled me. Also, once I arranged with them, I stop talking to them.

Since then, I always talk to them, until the date comes. In fact, I try to always at least greet them each day, even after the first/second date.

yes i think so. She probably thought you werent that much interested in her, and thats why she made plans. At the start, you need to treat them very specially. Remember they tend to have many options.

I think that you should never arrange a date for some days later, and not message her between those days. In my experience, they almost always they cancel, if you didnt message them. At the start you need to be more invested in her, than she in you.

Just keep messaging her, and remind her of the date one day before, and the same day. For me, it works most of the time.

If you are having sex with her, I wouldnt mind other guys. In my experience, girls tend to only focus on one guy. There exist the possiblity you are having sex with her, and she is interested in someone else; however I dont think you can do much about it, and the situation wont last for much.

Have you talked to her that you want something serious with her? briefly hint it to her, and if she doesnt respond well, then case lost.

You look too needy, and much more interested, than her. She seems like she is avoiding going out also. I suggest do not choose any of your 2 options. I suggest you to date other women, and maybe sent her another message days later. The trick is to not get emotionally attached to any women, I believe.

Also, I never buy things for women, apart from food, unless we've dating and having sex for a while.

Women will never give you feedback because they don't even know.

I mean, I think white girls are the most demanded group of women. So you really should have a top tier profile. I would put a more realistic photo of you, where you are doing something cool you usually do.

You body shape looks different.

Yeah that's the problem with girls. If you didn't make something special, they lose interest. The fact that she messaged you was a good thing. However, when it is a very good date, they insist on having another one.

I think that maybe if you were a bit colder after the date, she could have told you about having another one.

Forget about her and go to the next one. Maybe she will text you in some weeks.

Keep dating, it's necessary, but do it only when you should. When you do it when you should, youll have lots of fun, independently of the outcome. Like, I don't care of the outcome. If I don't kiss her, fine; if I do, good. Im currently dating one new girl per 1-2 weeks. And im also dating other girls who are not new. I do get rejected and ghosted a lot, but I think that happens to every man.

If I feel I should take the initiative I do it, but If not, I just try to have fun. Imagine you are a complete Chad. Women should be pursuing you. And that does happen, you just need to start improving your behavior, skills, money, body, and girls will realize it. 2 weeks ago a girl on Tinder was insisting in trying to buy me food trough Uber eats. We just talked for some days, and she told me she was very interested on me, and that she wanted to standout, by buying me food. I rejected her offer, because I don't like women buying me stuff.

Anyways, even If I have women taking initiative with me, I still get rejected a lot. That seems to be part of being man.