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Hello, So I took the advice you guys have given, now I feel much better in a sense of feeling less anxious compared to my last post. I still get anxiety attacks here and there but mainly when its hot girls mainly or when I think they are attractive or when they stare at me. I can say I am about out going as it gets when it comes to speaking to okay looking girls on the street or guys (guys in the gym too). I am 100% straight. Thought to share that because I'm clearly alright speaking with strangers, its jut still this problem and I have seeked therapy which has helped a lot(still seeing him). I feel like I still struggle only in that one area (mentioned above) and I don't why in detail or how to overcome it. Anyone got any suggestions other than meds. (also I'm am also religious and I don't drink but I still have fun with girls when i am not anxious. This only happens when I take it step by step. I am also still in college (University)). Furthermore I am only writing here again because I was with a friend who does calisthenics in the gym and he is pretty jacked/ looks like a fuckboy as well. He was doing these muscle up and basically these girls were all staring at him and they made it so bait that they wanted him and me to approach them but we couldn't. He was pretty anxious but I was about to get a anxiety attack if I spoke to them. I felt it coming until they left but they were doing squats right in front of us on a machine that makes your whole body vibrate. Now I felt like I should have said something to them but then also I didn't want to have another anxiety attack and possibly embarrass myself. Your feedback or suggestions would be helpful.

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Hey guys, I wanted to ask if you have had a similar experience. I am currently in college and usually I get girls numbers whether from the club or in the library (sober). I don't drink. I am usually out going But when it comes to the thought of anything sexual also when she says about smashing another guy, It seems to trigger my anxiety so severely that I get anxiety attacks and I throw up. I have seen that also when it comes to something i see as wrong and that is when I tend to get this anxiety attack. I am writing this here because recently me and this girl we were vibing really really well and sounded like we could start a relationship together. We didn't have sex first time and we only made out. She came also straight to my room. I basically had an anxiety attack at that time. Now when she left she got scared and worried about me and thought it wasn't a good idea for us to talk anymore because she can't deal with it. I always had that fear of having panic attacks resulting in this exact experience. That's why I don't go on dates and now I don't really go for ONS. I have had past truama with girls and I'm guessing that contributed to it in fact that is one of the biggest cause. I have had sex with a couple of girls and they were good looking and in fact one was probably a 10/10. She was the one I lost it to (she had a bf). I felt that was wrong but I was high that's when I lost it so I didn't have a anxiety attack. Now I just have this problem of having these anxiety attacks that seem to put me off and put girls off. Any advice ?

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