Wtf, what do you even answer to that?

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Chatting to some chick on Bumble that has “something casual” in her profile. Started with some banter about her country and then pitched drinks. I’m not exactly sure how to recover here

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More of this. I dunno why she keeps replying

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is this the same girl as original post? seems hard to follow as it looks like a new convo

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Same one yea

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The first part

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better to post the full convo for better context, but this is not looking good when she says stuff like "The weather is nice"

And you should first ask if she likes to drink or likes wine before trying to go for the number as then the number makes more sense thus she should be more willing if she agrees to liking drinking/wine etc

I would try saving this convo with something like
"You can always just block someone lol, what do you like to drink?"

Then build more comfort etc before either planning the date straight on bumble or going for the number again in a better way

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"How can we make plans happen if your inclination is to ghost when I'm genuinely showing interest?"

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In a dramatic turn of events I was able to get this girl on a date the other day and close the deal leading to a fuck marathon at her place.

In person, she wasn’t standoffish or difficult at all. She was positive, happy and even told me I look hotter in person.

Mind blown in other words.

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Amazing bro!

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Amazing, major congrats dude, thought this one was a dud :D

so you didn't get her number at all? or did you exchange numbers in person. How was the date/pull like, think this one would make a great mini lay report

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Scroll shot of the whole conversation

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I'd just get to the point with this one and ask "When are you usually free"

because she could just be a time waster who doesn't actually meet people. Especially after she said "Always have excuses"

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Not sure how to recover here anymore

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damn, she didn't even answer the "what do you like to drink" question? which would have been great to switch topics

I think she just wants you to agree/comfort her, I'd try something like this to try and slowly switch topic

"That makes sense, how has the guys on bumble been treating you so far"

But yeah, focus on other leads too, idk about this one

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Your answers generally look very long

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