Wow. How to go from here. Fighting a reimerging pattern

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Chick seemed classy, and also had a description about being into old fashioned dates and flowers blabla, and is hot. Therefore my opener...
I feel like I went too soon for the close and the frame isn't "we frame" and the convo isn't going anywhere, like bit gamey, and also her last reponse puts me in to the chaser frame. Meeh
How to turn this around, or what to say, what frame to take on? Thanks

As a sidenote...My texts often look like this on dating apps. Girl responds to opener well, maybe 3-4 excahnges and then I go for the close. I may be not patient enough or just want to get off the app

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ā€œI’m sure our love will find a way through. Hoping you have one or more of my weaknesses tbh..ā€
This will put her in a qualifying frame again and you can sexualize with whatever your weaknesses are

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of course she asked "what would those be"

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thanks, will try this one out!

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"My name is Nitin. I moved to the USA 5 years ago for my degree and & I work in tech developing apps. I love traveling. I have a weakness for a nice booty. And long romantic walks. My hobbies include but not limited to: skiing, hiking, model photography, poker, singing & giving booty massages."

Make changes to that as you want

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Wow. Thanks, this you use as bio or as a message for particular situations?

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