Does “Don’t be shy” work here for a follow up?
Or do I just wait it out another week & say “How’s my favorite boba enthusiast been”?
We had sex 2 times at both of our homes. She’s a lot more active on instagram now.
Her friend posted on instagram stories that they were hanging out on “national girlfriend day (Aug 1)” & she’s bi if that matters lol.
ANY & ALL feedback is greatly appreciated!
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If you guys had sex twice already and had little time now couldn't you propose her just to come over to have sex? Unless you really want to go to boba and arent using it to incentivize sex, then go for boba. But if thats not the case, in my humble opinion, just call or text her what you truly want. If shes busy, nonetheless has a girlfriend, and only wants sex too, she may be down for it.
Thanks man, you right. She did say that she was “polyamorous & bi-curious... but can’t handle 2 dicks” after asking me what types of relationships have I had post-sex.
She’s also posting songs like this with her selfies bashing men so I guess I got confused lol.
This is all very new territory to me.




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I would propose a different version, something like "Damn don't go shy on me" in a couple of days but the reality is she said it herself, she's extremely busy so I would keep your expectations low. You've already used the "we could both find time" line so I think you just have to relax a bit, if she's into you she'll make some sort of effort. Also, don't overthink the girlfriend day thing, you really have no idea and it's best not to assume.
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Thanks man! I’m curious to see if she’s using me for revenge dick. She did say that she was treated like shit her last relationship, but idk if they’re still in contact.
It would explain the periodical ghosting & why I’d randomly get hit up by her lol