So should be a relatively easy question for some of the more experienced fellas out there.
So I've got plans to meet up with a girl who is quite invested, now she has been busy for the last 2 weeks and so we agreed to meet this week and she seems to still respond to me with good energy when I reopened.
However I recently just found out that I have a lot of shit to take care of this week and possibly next week aswell as i'm going on a 4-5 day trip so meeting this week would be less enjoyable for me. I technically could see her this week although like I said I really prefer not to, but i'm not sure if not doing so would make her lose interest. I'm sure its happened a few times to you that you've had to put off a date for a week or two (keep in mind she had to aswell jsut before for 2 weeks), is this usually a problem for the girl or a cause for her to lose interest or does it not matter?
In case it doesn't matter I guess finding a way to tell her it would be best if we met up in a week or two without it seeming like i'm flaking/ not planning to meet up would be optimal. So if anyone has any ideas for that aswell then I'd appreciate it.
In my experience when a girl has to wait too long to meet up she will lose interest. The only time I would delibirately wait some time before going for the meet up is if the girl flakes on you.
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Alright thanks!
I'll keep that in mind, although setting up the date for next week should be fine I think. I mean she already made me wait 2 weeks so its only fair haha
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You're definitely risking her losing interest, but you gotta live your life. Basically, you are adding unwanted variables to your goal (closing the date). If she's agreed to hang out, there is no upside to prolonging the date for weeks, but there is plenty of potential downside risk. Doesnt mean it won't happen, but it does mean it's less likely. Just be honest with what's going on and hopefully it will work out.