situation salvageable or does this fall into the category of women saying "no chemistry"/not into me? (texts are translated from german to english)
background: me 29; she's 39 one year divorced. I was her first "stranger" meeting from online.
-She actually quickly deleted hinge after we exchanged numbers (apps being not her thing etc).
-met at a bar for a few drinks.
-Had a good connection, a chill first date. Since she was hesitant about online dating etc. no straight to the house date.
-As you can see in the text, said I had a good time and just figured logistics for second date.
She replied about not being in "dating-mode".
Told her "all good, let me know if something changes" -> she: "will do. thank you :)" (not visible in the screenshot)
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Yeah man. This is girl code for "I'm just not that attracted to you" unfortunately. Since I wasn't there on the date, I can't say exactly why. But 1 thing I can tell you is that "Playing it safe" is never an effective strategy.
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thanks for your insight. duly noted.
oh well, can't get em all
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Is there an issue with the translation because right now it sounds like the chick basically told you she's not looking for anything serious and asked if that's okay with you. By telling her "let me know if something changes" you basically communicated that you're only looking for something serious lol