Just had a hot hot girl over. We enjoyed a lil wine and made out a bunch but when things got frisky i could not get hard. I was eating her out and just couldnt get aroused. Soon i was in my head and not even into it at all, purely just freaking out. I cut my losses when i almost started cumming while fully flacid. I was honest and we laughed about it but i probably wont see her again. Anyone else go through this and what are some methods to avoid this in the future?
I take 100-200mg Niacin (not niacinamide) a day sometimes, which is basically vitamin B3, it causes vasolidation (expanding blood vessels by 3x, increased blood flow). It will make you Flush, like get red all over (more blood in small capilaries that are closer to the surface of the skin), but what I found out is that it increases my Libido, stamina and erection, dick gets way harder and lasts longer as a long term result, I mean not within the 1hour of vasolidation, like the day after and days after it helps. The only problem is that after about 3-4h it initiates lipolysis which is fatty acid breakdown and if you're a smoker or exposed to heavy metals, they normally store in adipose tissue (fatty acid) so for me i'd feel a bit sick sometimes as that toxicity is released to blood stream.
Happens to me. As you say, may be something in your mind that's causing it. A) Keep drinks to minimum B) Maybe don't do hookups if it's not your thing C) All the herbal/vitamin crap is placebo effect and unreliable - take Cialis or Viagra if you need to - they work.
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how old are you? do you have problems getting a solid long erection when masturbating? go to your doc and get some cialis that should help a lot.
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- Nah normally i do not have issues getting erections. This is the second time its happened to me. The first time was also with a hot chick i hooked up with in college who kind of smelled bad and i was again drunk. When im in a relationship though i can get hard whenever. Maybe hookups are tough for me subconsciously?
Been there many times man, same situation with hookups. Relationships I'm fine also. I recently got Stirling Cooper's guide to performance anxiety, which is good. Haven't tried the principles yet. Also you could look at Mojo that's meant to be good. All the best
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How hot was she exactly?
I've only that happen with chicks in the 5+5.5/10 range. 6 or higher would be weird to have that issue. Makes me think your overestimating her looks. Post her pic
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Not posting pics but I'd give her a 9 at least. Big booty, very fit and slim, double d tits, big lips and 9/10 face. Had stretch marks that turned me off a lil (milf) but i probably thought she was out of my league subconsciously which played a role too. Definitely the hottest girl ive ever been with on paper
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Part of the game. I would just strictly keep it to two glasses. Sip as slow as possible if she's a fast drinker. I would also suggest taking maca, horny goat weed and ashwagandha everyday. They are great herbal supplements to not have this problem
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You're the man alex thanks