Where to go from here?
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4y ago *
16 Posts (+10), 56 Cmts (+17)
I feel like she gave me a good positive first reply but after that the vibe kinda went away is it because I changed the topic away from talking about her hair?
It feels like the convo just became dry when she just responded with “Yes I am!” because I wanted to get off topic and branch off into other parts of getting to know her but she doesn’t ask me anything to branch off from and so I was wondering how I can switch it up from here? I’m trying to avoid the typical what do you do for work topics and would rather talk about travel or adventures instead
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6 Posts (+10), 188 Cmts (+18)
She seems interested. If that’s the beginning of the conversation I don’t know what to say other than girls are are really into their appearance like their hair, face and body so they will give you positive reactions to that if you bring it up. You could’ve easily sexualized something about her hair like, “you know I’d play with that pony tail when I’m behind you” or something of that nature to test the waters. It’s never too early, step out of your comfort zone. If she bites it, good, lead into more specialization and into getting her number and ask her out. Your goal should always be to get the number then ask her out.
16 Posts (+10), 56 Cmts (+17)
Yea for sure I was thinking about it but didn't take the risk after the 1st message, I will try next time to just take more risks and sexualize as fast as I can even if its after the 1st message to see what happens
6 Posts (+10), 188 Cmts (+18)
Don’t rush it but if the situation presents itself or if she seems like that type of girl slowly ease into it. You can get numbers and dates even without sexualizing it.