Where did I mess up here?

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John A

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John A

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Was messaging this hot girl on Tinder and she ghosted right as I went for the close. Where did I mess up exactly?

I know my last set of messages was probably a little long but hers were pretty long too so I thought it was ok...

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Koda null

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I’m no expert but I think you talked about yourself/over shared and need to just respond short and then ask her about herself

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John A

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Cool thanks

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Mr Monkz

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the start was good but it looks it’s got over texting and probably boring for her .. also you’ve pushed for drink grab without having her in the frame .

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John A

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I agree. I find that the more I text though, the more boring the convos go, even when following the PWF format. How would you have handled it when she kept on asking me the same question around snorkeling?

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Mr Monkz

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you’ve should short answer and gently switch the topic . But even if you do everything right there’s still will be girls who may ghost lol so take it easy bro and keep shooting 👌

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avilench .

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this one is likely done man. Way to over invested here

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John A

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Yeah I agree. Big learning here and it's counter-intuitive for me, the most I try, the less it works out. Better to be in the sweet spot of less invested (but not too un-invested)

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