Where did I go wrong?

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Seemed like she was quite into the interaction and then stopped responding after my soft close, any ideas what went wrong?

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avilench . Avatar

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well, you basically did a double soft close which is far from the worst thing you can do and i do that sometimes as well. It could be any number of things, but chicks will just randomly disappear for no reason as well. Give it a week and hit her with another takeaway. "i genuinely didn't take you for the flakey type"

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Thanks for the help Alex. I was just checking to see there weren’t any obvious mistakes here. I’ll make sure I single soft close in future and see if it works better

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You didn't ask for her number... That might be the issue

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So for each of these when they send a positive response to the idea of a date should I just go back with “great shoot me your number” or something like that?

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Of course, or the regular PWF style "shoot me your number for romantic date purposes"

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A similar issue with this one, she did eventually respond but not with the same level of interest as before. I wonder if it’s something to do with the pace/timing of my closing

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