When to reopen? Need some advice

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Sup guys,

So I'm looking for some advice on how to reopen a girl (i'll give context below). Now I know Alex has some fantastic videos on how to reopen girls, however whilst it does give great examples/insight on how to do it, i'm not sure when would be the best time to do so regarding this case.

So a girl who was really quite invested into me and pretty down for a meetup, we had lots of reasons to meetup and eventually agreed to a date but she is busy all the way until the 6-7th of june when she starts being available but she said the date is a plan. Okay that's fine, told her to shoot me her number and she sends her instagram.
Now she didn't respond to the last few messages on tinder that I had sent her (see picture below) although not sure if these messages really need a response.

So anyway its been about a week since we last texted, and the 6-7th is coming up, when would be the ideal time to re open? I would obviously do it on instagram but not sure if I should do it now/this weekend or after the 7th and see when she's free. Also not entirely sure what the best way to reopen her is, do I try to build on a conversation again? I mean she was really into me and flirting but now we havn't talked for a while so don't know if I need to just go back to logistics or build up a conversation first. I'm sure I could just open randomly now and using the stuff Alex talks about in his videos but ultimately I'm here to learn what the optimal thing to do is here.

Thanks appreciate the help/advice!

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theres poor text game here on your part, i would have just responded with "nono i have whatsapp, number?" keep things as simple as possible. For your next message you can just say, "if your too nervous i totally understand"

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T

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Alright thanks! But was thinking of hitting her up on instagram since I did get her IG and its maybe more personal than just messaging on tinder again? And in which case I open her with "Hey (her name)" to start a conversation and reference our scheduled 'appointment' and fix the plans for a time/place. What do you think?

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